Dear Prudence is written by Margo Howard, Ann Landers' daughter. His current wife, now widow, doesn’t either. A: First, I don’t know where the “you have a year to get a wedding gift” idea comes from. That of course it was painful to discover, but on further reflection you realize he needs some relief from this terrible sadness. What you do is work hard at school so that you finish your degree and develop relationships with professors who would be happy to provide you with references. This will be a hard, tearful discussion, but it will also probably be relief of a terrible, guilt-ridden burden for him. You can do it!” “Wow! An illustration of a magnifying glass. And if so what else can I do with it? Blankie has been hidden from her for two weeks. But giving up blankie could be years down the road for your still 5-year-old daughter—and if she holds onto this shred of assurance over the long haul, that’s fine, too. My husband has been curious about my lactation, and I allowed him to taste some (from a bottle that I pumped). A few weeks ago, my fiancé started acting strange when we talked about the wedding. His estate is rather large. Re: Wedding etiquette: I went to a wedding in November 2012 and didn’t get a thank you note until about June of 2013. I am 36 and don’t feel like waiting on him anymore. You’ve run out of free articles. My mom said we would most likely be excluding “the Smiths” (my stepdad’s family) from the wedding, but I think my stepdad deserves to be there, or at least to have the choice whether to be there or not. Earlier this year (six years after his divorce was finalized), we married. So to defuse this situation I suggest you apologize. Dear Prudence, I have this problem I’m hoping you can help me with. But as you say your farewells to those closest to you, you can allude to it. I have never responded to the weekly attacks in any way, and I never post anything that I think would directly bait her. Depending on how that goes, you can say that you miss the sarcastic take she had on life. Originally from Scotland Laura gains inspiration from woodland creatures, birds and her rural surroundings. You can cancel anytime. You ignore any jabs you hear about the decade plus scoreboard the aunts keep. I think you should let that be. Dave Ramsey and Dear Prudence: When good advice goes bad December 10, 2013 Fred Clark. It’s an expensive piece of equipment, barely used, and it should be employed (and loved) once again. Perhaps you can tell your family that you want them to know that life can be so difficult and complicated and that through all of it your husband has been everything you wanted. (Sign up here to get Dear Prudence delivered to your inbox each week. I kept insisting to my husband that I would do it myself, and perhaps because I made it into such a big-seeming task, I never got it done. Read previous Prudie chats Like Dear Prudence on Facebook Slate relies on advertising to support our journalism. 2013-06-13: The Abbey Pub . Typical snacks include gourmet granola varieties, flavored nut combinations, and dried fruit. He thinks this sweet, fatty milk product would be perfect for a creamy mushroom pasta sauce. She is also Slate's Human Guinea Pig, a contributor to the XX Factor blog, and the author of What the Dog Did: Tales From a Formerly Reluctant Dog Owner. My husband has two aunts: Judith and Mary. I asked him to visit a marriage therapist together and he said he’s “not ready” to work on our marriage, and thinks he needs to see a grief therapist instead. The Muse Editor. We just received a Christmas card from Judith in which the only message was that my husband should plan to attend Mary’s son’s high school graduation because the aunts attended his many years ago. As a start, hearing from a neutral party that your daughter’s attachment is typical might mollify your husband on this subject. I have not been to a wedding in over 20 years but in 2013 I was invited to and attended three, all couples in their mid-20s, one of the brides my niece. I’m glad she’s happy now but I thought we were happy before and frankly, I miss my old wife! My Girlfriend the Sex Coach: My GF and I recently started having sex. In 2012 Farrow established the non-profit Dear Prudence Foundation to raise funds for a documentary film of the 2013 Kumbh Mela festival which is held in India every twelve years. DEAR CAROLYN: After years of living with hand-me-down furniture we got in college, my husband and I recently bought a house and invested in some nice furniture. Q. Maybe my future MIL has a point, but I would really rather disinvite HER than my dad. The only thing I agree with from your advice is that she should consult an attorney. Dear Prudence, Please help. Don’t ask. After he went away to college, I chose a college in the same city as his, so we continued to see a lot of each other. I really have to dig deep in my mind for really dirty thoughts to stay in the mood because to me it is so ridiculous that I just want to burst out laughing sometimes. What do we do? Re: Harsh Response: I didn’t think your response was harsh enough! I particularly enjoy my wife’s dry, some would say sarcastic, sense of humor. by Abigail Van Buren. Dear Prudence: My Husband Is Contemplating Ruining Our Lives By Going To Law School Dear Prudence sets the record straight for the wife of a future law student when it … What’s a nice, but firm way to respond to the passive-aggressive jabs that there are sure to be more of between now and June? When I’ve run these I’ve always been flooded with lovely replies from people who continue to have a special place of affection for an article that helped get them through some hard times, including being in a bomb attack in Iraq. For several days I cried, heartbroken at the betrayal, but now I feel like my husband deserves to have someone help him and support HIM through this emotional time. How do I broach this subject? But you have written to me for a reaction, and mine is that you should tell your husband. Hey, if It’s Good Enough for Royalty … (Aug. 19). Am I being unreasonable? I can’t imagine how he’s going to explain that departure to potential employers. Q. I cannot take her answer seriously, but I find it rather disturbing nonetheless. When you’ve let your lovers in on your supposedly shameful secret that you must stick your legs straight out in order to have a Mount Pinatubo–intensity orgasm, to a man they’ve responded, “I can work with that.” Over the decades you’ve worn a powerful groove between body and mind that is a shortcut to ecstasy. Slate's advice columnist Dear Prudence, offers advice on manners, morals and more. To address that, start by telling your husband that this issue has made you realize you two need to go to parenting classes together. Dear Mortified, I don’t want my niece to live in incest because of my past mistake, Please help. So, on top of everything, he’s also grieving for a baby which may or may not have been his. You clearly assumed living together would lead to something permanent. How can I help her? Dear Dark, Contact a lawyer and have her or him send the ex a letter stating that the contact with you needs to cease or else you will take all the legal action open to you to stop this offensive behavior. She creates imaginative and amusing illustrations using watercolours, pen and ink. I don’t have any advice on where you go to get help for your lack of morals—or heart. I am pregnant with his child. Each month you get 5 full-sized snacks for a total of 15-20 servings. A: I’d say I’m sorry for your loss, but since apparently you aren’t, I won’t bother. Not dramatically, but enough so that she has become a glass-half-full, constantly cheerful type of person. But I would not want to meet the kind of person who would ring my bell in order to get a used vibrator. Vote Now on the Dear Abby Poll of the week. He lost part of one limb and has some serious disfigurement. We have not had sex because there’s a psychological barrier that neither of us wants to cross. Don’t frame it as a confrontation, but as a conversation. Dear Abby in Advice December 31, 2013 Commuting and Email Traffic Bring Out Woman's Worst. Second, ameliorate your shame. I’ll get back to you with an answer in a few weeks, because now that my husband has seen your question I assume he’ll start slipping Paxil into my half-empty coffee cup hoping for a similar change in my disposition. And you’ve left us all wondering: Does the grieving widower have any idea what his wife was up to? Our problem is that my husband’s ex-wife is constantly harassing me on social media, and by emailing my work and personal accounts. My husband argues that since we have plenty of supply and it wouldn’t hurt the baby, I should just let him try it and get over my repulsion. Dear Prudence: Emily Yoffe Answers our Questions. My brother and I are having a physical relationship. My husband and I are at odds over our younger daughter and her “blankie.” My mother bought it for me when I was born and it’s been loved so much for so long that it’s completely see-through. About three months ago we were sitting on my couch watching a sad movie and when it was over we turned to each other, exchanged a look, and started kissing. You can say you are wishing all the best for Christmas and the coming year, and your resolution for 2014 was to rectify having never thanked your guest for the lovely wedding gift. Or should I demand he focus on our marriage? If someone has been long remiss in expressing appreciation, the note should contain an apology for the delay—as well as actual words to the gift giver expressing appreciation for the specific and thoughtful gift. Whether your little girl eventually consigns blankie to a special private place (highly likely) or continues to keep him within reach (possible, but less so), ask your husband this question: What’s it to you? About 18 months ago my wife’s mother passed away suddenly and my wife began seeing a counselor. Check out Dear Prudence’s book recommendations in the Slate Store. Like Dear Prudence on Facebook Emily Yoffe, aka Dear Prudence, is on weekly to chat live with readers. Your husband sounds insane. Emily Yoffe -- a.k.a. I can’t even imagine raising the idea of asking your new squeeze to party with a vibrator “loved” by your late wife. It was amicable; I decided I wanted kids, he didn’t, and he lost his faith. I look forward to your questions. I have not confronted him about the affair, and were it not for the email and my subsequent snooping, I never would have known as I have not felt him pulling away from me. Please post in the comments any great ones we left out. I feel I don’t have a choice, though, as he has made it clear that marriage is not in the cards for him anytime soon. When you send a gift for which you have not received an acknowledgement in a reasonable amount of time, it is perfectly fine to check with the recipient to make sure it was received. Do I confront my husband and tell him I understand? Originally from Scotland Laura gains inspiration from woodland creatures, birds and her rural surroundings. On bad days he even has to help me bathe, and I know this has taken a toll on him. Well, here you are, having set up your girlfriend with a trick choice. Talk about a buzz kill. Then you tell him what you told me. I’m disturbed that in response to his daughter’s tears, your husband wants to incinerate this little piece of cloth. We both know intellectually that we shouldn’t be doing this, but we don’t feel the wrongness of it. Is it creepy to offer a dead woman’s vibrator to someone else? Sure, some people don’t get around to getting a gift until after the wedding, and that’s fine, but there isn’t a rule that you should wait to see if the marriage takes. • Seattle Rock Orchestra played "Dear Prudence," and Velocity artist Kate Wallich danced mesmerizingly, and it was beautiful. etree. My girlfriend and I are having a disagreement. Dear Abby in Advice December 16, 2020 Living With Ex-Husband Goes From Bad to Worse. He didn’t know. I guess they were never “required” to begin with but over 20 years ago, I attended a lot of weddings, like when all my friends were getting married and always got some kind of note. In each case, I gave a nice gift and my niece was given a pretty substantial financial gift. The new rainbows-and-sunshine person I’m living with gives me a headache and I find myself less attracted to her. It was the worst thing that either of us had ever done, but through the years, we have done our best to be the best partners, family members, community members, friends, and employees that we can be, and try to move on from our less-than-perfect beginning. She's dying of a terminal illness -- she has six to eight months to live -- and her husband has been a tremendous source of support to her. We’ve argued a lot about this. She’d probably advise the reader to tell and let the chips fall where they may.) You don’t have to tell anyone else about this. “No, Bobby, you can’t date that girl because she’s you’re biological cousin” is all it would have taken. If you do have an affair, or something pretty close, and you vow to forever keep this secret, you each will spend decades hoping your sibling stays silent. I fear my current lover will get tired and bored with my “patented method.” I told a close girlfriend about this last year and she blurted out, “Ewww: mannequin!” which was a kick in the gut. You’ve run out of free articles. But that her commentary during sex, while meant to be encouraging, is really distracting and you’d appreciate if she’d stop. 1. Take heart that your husband is not the only one with culinary designs on his wife’s lactation. I found out about the affair only two days after her funeral. “You’re doing great!” “Your technique and fundamentals are really good.” (While going down on her:) “Yes! She doesn’t even really talk dirty, she just will shout all these words of encouragement. I think even those two men would advise you two to stop the rubbing and get yourselves disentangled emotionally. He should be the one to respond to his mother about this, and it’s not too late for him to make clear she is totally out of line. Tell your husband you’ll stick to your breasts’ providing dinner service exclusively for the kid, but you’d love to have his creamy mushroom pasta. (I was a similarly imaginative child.) They separated three months later and divorced. Read Prudie’s Slate columns here. Do I need to give him time to mourn the loss of his mistress? Even if you’ve cleaned it off with Antibacterial Toy Cleaning Spray, this suggestion is going to cause unnecessary friction. Slate's advice columnist Dear Prudence, offers advice on manners, morals and more. Just because you have a “patented method” does not mean you’re a dull lover. I have not been to a wedding in over 20 years but in 2013 … A little over a year ago I was diagnosed with a terminal illness, and currently only have about six-to-eight months left. Hearing that you’re leaving has not prompted him to reassess his life priorities—he just doesn’t want to lose his roommate. But if one or the other feels this is something a future romantic partner should know, don’t be surprised if upon hearing your confession your new love quickly backs away. (The vibrator had nothing to do with that.) Just curious. Join Slate Plus to continue reading, and you’ll get unlimited access to all our work—and support Slate’s independent journalism. She had a falling out with one girl and it’s escalated to this point. Cousin marriage is common in much of the world and I think the remaining laws against it in this country should be repealed. Dear Prudence answers more of your questions—only for Slate Plus members. I asked him what was up and he avoided the question. Think how great you will feel addressing those envelopes and finally addressing this source of guilt. But since I am a dog, beware my fangs.” Since you fancy yourself a Shakespeare scholar, perhaps you are aware of the Bard’s propensity for having his characters fall into psychological traps of their own making. Our parents are admirable people who took good care of us, but are distant and aloof, and I think that my brother and I turned to each other for warmth and emotional support. Had he lived the kid would have been entitled to at least 18 years of child support and you’d hope the man would have included the kid in his estate planning. Sure, you broke up her marriage—six years ago!—and she’s entitled to dislike you. If you don’t have a therapist, please consider getting one in order to have someone neutral who can help you fully work through this and everything you are facing. Teen Excluded From Clique: My eighth-grade daughter has been dropped by the “in crowd.” She doesn’t get invited to the big parties, pushed out of the lunch table and pointedly left out of group projects. You’re right, however, that telling your spouse her new cheerfulness has you wanting to get into bed, alone, and pull the covers over your head, is going to be a difficult, even baffling conversation. Is there some way I can convince my husband that loving “blankie” is still OK no matter what our daughter’s age? I have known of O. Henry–like situations in which the bride was miffed at the lack of a gift, the sender was miffed at the lack of a thank you, and it turns out the gift was lost in the mail or stolen. She was in the early weeks of pregnancy when she died and my husband doesn’t know whether he or her husband was the father. Click here to read Part 2 of this week’s chat. Dear Sibling, The pattern is available in her store and is currently 15% off with the code PRUDENCE15.. Dear Prudence is a dress pattern for girls in sizes 12mths – 10 yrs. He says she’s dead, so there’s no reason for me to feel jealous or threatened, and asks for my understanding as he grieves. But doing so is the right thing to do to take care of her kid—not a heartless gesture at all. Dear Prudence: My Husband Is Contemplating Ruining Our Lives By Going To Law School By Dear Prudence sets the record straight for the wife of … Discuss this column with Emily Yoffe on her Facebook page. People thought it … Nature Box. Dear Prudence Dress July 14, 2015 Suz from sewpony has recently released her newest dress pattern, Dear Prudence, and today I'm joining her blog tour with a fun retro-inspired version. Wedding: I am 27 years old and engaged to an amazing guy. Turning breast milk into food for adults feels a bit like making margaritas from my sweat. She creates imaginative and amusing illustrations using watercolours, pen and ink. If someone has a citation, I’d like to see. I have had many letters from people desperate to get their annoying loved ones on some kind of medication to take the edge off of jagged personalities. He’s two years older and looked out for me in high school, and I shared with him what girls are like, which made him more confident socially. A: I am so sorry about your prognosis and so moved by your insight and compassion. Her last Dear Prudence column appeared in Slate on 2 February 2006. Don’t tell.” (Not that Dear Abby would give such craptacular advice. Child of Divorce … Again: I just found out that my mom and my stepdad are separating. Alfredo, Straight From the Pump (July 25). In a "Dear Prudence" letter, a husband tells contributor Emily Yoffe that he and his wife were both "born to lesbians" -- he to a single woman and she to a couple. Get some lovely cards that aren’t specifically for Christmas but have a holiday look, and write those notes. I hate it and am embarrassed about it. I know people have a year to send a gift, but if the gift is given at the time of the wedding, does the couple have a year to respond? Slate relies on advertising to support our journalism. Q. Is that how things work now, thank you notes not required? Mention how much you have enjoyed it and that having it in your home reminds you often of their thoughtfulness. 2020 2019 2018 2017 2016 2015 2014 2013 2012 2011 2010 2009 2008 2007 2006 2005 2004 2003 2002 2001 2000 1999 1998 1997 1996 1995 1994 1993 1992 1991. Just Be Glad She Doesn’t Use a Whistle (July 2). “Your cheating is nobody’s business. But I think my girlfriend’s choice is the wrong one. Emily Yoffe: Good afternoon. Sell it, toss it, or share it? Get in touch with the social media provider and explain you are being harassed. We were planning on sending a card and a check, not spending what could be $1,000 on airfare and hotel! Howard maintained the column for nearly eight years. Now, more than a year later, I’ve begun to date again. 2020 2019 2018 2017 2016 2015 2014 2013 2012 2011 2010 2009 2008 2007 2006 2005 2004 2003 2002 2001 2000 1999 1998 1997 1996 1995 1994 1993 1992 1991. Keep in mind that the deceased was just as much a part of the affair as she was. I’m also getting married in the spring, and would still like him to be included in the wedding, but I’m unsure how to do so without making everyone uncomfortable. The gothic rock icon also dusted off tracks from her 2007 solo LP, MantaRay, and covered the Beatles' "Dear Prudence." My youngest talks with blankie and when she has tea parties she will “feed” blankie. Father of the Bride Not Included (Aug. 6). She is highly educated and claims to have great respect for Shakespeare. Our daughter cries sometimes at night because she wants to cuddle with blankie, or she will say “I’m afraid blankie is going to die.” I want her to have the blanket back, but my husband is adamant. This has been very hard, but I am starting to come to terms with the reality of the situation. Of course you’re reeling over these events, so if he won’t see a counselor with you, consider going alone. I asked her what she planned to do to stop the wedding and she said she’s doing nothing! But she’s not entitled to carry on a bizarre campaign of public intimidation. In your mind her only acceptable answers were either you were a fool to come up with this game, or that she’d save the Shakespeare. She is suggesting that we have a private family ceremony before the big blowout. My girlfriend says that she would rescue the puppy because the puppy is a fellow living being. We can’t afford private school and there isn’t another public middle school. I thought she was simply a co-worker and I was wondering why my husband was so disturbed and emotional. 3. I’m starting to feel like I may never move out of my parents place and am doomed to be a crazy cat lady. You tell your girlfriend how happy you are with her, how wonderful it is that you’ve become intimate, blah, blah, blah. The world would be a happier place if the countless women who never reliably get off could solve this frustration with a session of mannequin legs. Q. by. Take, for example, last Tuesday's "Dear Prudence" advice column on Slate.A 32-year-old woman discovers that her husband has been having an affair and wonders whether to confront him. Prudence Farrow on The Beatles and the ’60s Spiritual Revolution. A: This is why I always recommend that before couples start splitting the rent, they figure out more than who pays the gas bill and who pays the electricity. By joining Slate Plus you support our work and get exclusive content. Q. Q. Dear Blankie, You can cancel anytime. I'm always on the hunt for yummy, healthy snacks. If one day Jack’s resolve breaks, you, Jill, are likely to come tumbling after. In the summer of 2011 my wife and I purchased a top-of-the-line Jopen vibrator. Dear Prudence, I feel like a jerk and don’t know what to do. Q. I had assumed they weren’t doing thank you notes and was honestly shocked to finally receive one (and even then it was a generic pre-printed photo card that they didn’t even sign). This disgusts me. She says that preserving a living conscious thing is more valuable than preserving Shakespeare. Help! Discuss this column with Emily Yoffe on her Facebook page. You think you have a simple, easy way for the mother of the groom to stop the romance by saying, “Bobby, your father is not your father, and your fiancée is your cousin!” But if you think this through, explaining all this will entirely upend his family, and now yours, and at this late date in the wedding planning you can understand that the parents want to stick with their original plan to keep quiet about Bobby’s biology. Q. I’m Dying, Husband Affair: I am 32 and have been married to my husband, the love of my life and best friend, for the past five years. The Last Thing You Want to See on Craigslist. On 9 February 2006, "Dear Prudence" was taken over by Slate staffer Emily Yoffe. I understand there is a piece of equipment, one permanently attached to you, that has been washed and used again with your new love. I love your idea of switching “sides”—a great way to divide the labor and make a wonderful impression on a new person in your life. It took me a while to get back to dating. Emily Yoffe. So I think you should tell him to move out while you each figure out what you want out of your marriage and life. Possible Cousin Marriage: Over 20 years ago I had an affair with a married woman who became pregnant with my child. What is this all about? Our son doesn’t know anything and according to her, cousin marriage is harmless! Make the break and stop letting him waste your precious time. I’m a woman in my 50s who started masturbating when I was about 12 and have ever since. NatureBox definitely fits the bill. All contents © 2020 The Slate Group LLC. And I hope you tell your parents that if they are not both at the wedding and treated as guests of honor, you won’t be there, either. All of my wife’s other major possessions found wonderful new homes with dear friends of hers. Since then I have been living in my parents’ basement and paying rent. He’s told you flat out he can’t work on his marriage because he’s too torn up about the death of the woman he loved. Dear Fireman, You profess you two want normal lives, but if you violate this taboo you may never get there. My lovers have never expressed a problem with this—to the contrary—but I am still deeply ashamed. Dear Prudence in 2013 was a vast catalog of the human condition, its foibles and desires and generosities. Re: Wedding gift thank yous: When my wife and I were married (10-plus years ago) we made a decision that I would write the thank yous to the people on “her side,” and she would write the thanks to the people on “my side.” We thought that would be a way for the folks that knew us the least to get to know us. But when you put it so clearly, hey, people get judge-y. A: At least she didn’t bother with the crocodile tears! 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